Well it seems that after another few days of phone calls and legal consultations, he has decided to take the fight to her as it were. This apparently gives him hope that the law will reinforce its orders this time and hold her accountable for her contempt of the law. I know this is important to him ... clearing ones name and honour are always important, nevermind the chance to see his children, so I can't nay say him and tell him not to do this.
I selfishly look at this and see a future with 2 children who are likely to fear or dislike me just because I know N will not like me ... I see having to deal with these damaged kids in a family setting, a distressing future. I work with special needs individuals, some who have been damaged by their 'loving' family - I know the challenges ahead of me.
I have to remind myself that the future comes with a cost and everyone comes with baggage ...
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On another note ... I found this and liked it:
I selfishly look at this and see a future with 2 children who are likely to fear or dislike me just because I know N will not like me ... I see having to deal with these damaged kids in a family setting, a distressing future. I work with special needs individuals, some who have been damaged by their 'loving' family - I know the challenges ahead of me.
I have to remind myself that the future comes with a cost and everyone comes with baggage ...
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On another note ... I found this and liked it:
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